@Crimson: She's been out of the house for four months now and I wouldn't call dinner the other night progress. I guess during the dinner, I took my S3 to the restroom and my W told my S12 that "this doesn't mean we're getting back together". Not that I was expecting a dinner to make things all better between us, but why go out of her way to tell our son that? I know my S12 is hopeful and everything, but that's like pouring salt on an open wound.

@Accuray: Yeah, I'm kinda still waiting for the other shoe to drop. If the last four months have taught me anything, it's that nothing good happens without something bad or mean happening shortly after.

One thing I failed to mention about dinner the other night--she was wearing an NFL hoodie with a team logo on it. Now this wouldn't have been an issue when we were still together as she would occasionally were one mine, but my W does not like football and the team logo wasn't of my team, but the one that her "friend" likes. I guess that she also has a matching shirt too. I can't tell you how much that really, really bothers me--it's like she's throwing in my face.


Me36, W38
S12, S3
T20, M4
Bomb dropped 8/18/11
Moved out 8/18/11
Filed for D 10/20/11
OM Confirmed 11/5/11