Way to go Crimson. I have the same 180 going for me with my S. W was always the primary caretaker as well and I too never really took him anywhere on my own, but now that W doesn't live at home and I have S by myself I find myself doing everything I should have been doing in the first place. It makes me feel really good. I am defiantly a better father and I love all the time I now have alone with him. Also keep up great work with detaching. I am not emotionally detached from my W either. I am still so much in love with her (more so than I was 3 months ago). I do not call her at all unless it has to do with S, and I leave it at that. I honestly think being emotionally attached isn't that bad, as long as you can control yourself around her, and you do not let not being with her ruin your GAL. Keep it up!
M 33 W 29 S 4 M 5 T 7 11/7/11 Separation, W moves in with parents 12/1/11 W: "IDLY, I'm not coming back, it's over" 1/7/12 D Bomb Dropped
