Never thought I'd be here......part 2

[WenikiTiki]

Accuray - So I was reading a response you made on another post a thought I'd ask about it here instead of hijacking.

I am intrigued by the glimpses of your story that I have seen. I was reading your response to a poster where you were sharing the experience of not moving too fast when you see signs of "thawing". You shared the story of how your wife held your hand one minute and then wouldn't speak to you once you got home. In looking at your signature, one would assume that you had 1 month of turmoil before things began to turn the corner for you. Is that really the case? (sorry to pry, just curious). What exactly do you call a "positive" interaction that could show progress? My mind is still processing the encounter with my W at the Children's Hospital a few posts ago this week. Would love to get your take (or anyone else's for that matter) on it. I doubt if the encounter will change my actions, but here I am a few days later and I don't know what to make of it. It's not that I am trying to get in my wife's head - rather, I am trying to see if what I am doing (or not doing) in having an impact. If so, I will keep it up. It is just hard to tell.

Crimson

I too was intriguied by the one month timeline, and would love to hear the answer. I figured I would have to set aside one evening to read all his threads!

SO Crimson...... I have had sick kids, much hospital time between my two with asthma. You always pull together in times of crisis. Don't let this make you change your plans too much. Write down what changes you expect to see from her before you believe things have changed. Because who knows what she is thinking.

At the beginning of this mess with my H we had that Tsunami hit Hawaii. We had a long eventful night taking the boat out to sea, being stuck out in the harbor 'til they cleared for all to re-enter..... I would have thought from my H's actions that 24 hour period that all was well again. But 2 days later he retreated even more from me. And boy was it like being hit with a brick.

Take care of yourself!