Off he went to go kiss and make up and listen to more of her screwed up stupidity. GET ME OUT OF HERE.
I'm going to answer my own post here - because I suspect that is part of what Starsky is commenting on. After H went to talk to OW,... there was no kiss and make up. H came back, more convinced than ever that she's as wacked out as other members of her family. Me, now, I don't criticize, I speak about daughters future and how instead of having a d who's potentially going to be preg at 15 like OW's other daughter... MY H wants his daughter to go to univerity, and be a lawyer, or doctor, or a judge or DO something with her life. Not be a teen aged mother,... LIKE her mother. (His words).
DB says: Do the things that work, don't do the things that don't. Concentrating on speaking about how positively HE can affect his daughters future and he needs to protect that at all costs (and even had the same thing told him by a member or OW's family)... IS working. Rome wasn't built in a day.
Hell, he even talked about us going on family vacations together with him and BOTH his girls...to a special spot he always wanted to take me (but we just never got round do doing.)
His head knows what he has to do. His heart (as many have seen here, and experienced here... can have a mind of it's own.) The heart wants what the heart wants... and he's got to come to terms with "letting go"... just as each and every one of us HERE at DB have had to struggle with letting go etc etc etc.
If I wasn't making at least SOME inroads... why is he asking me to help him make and keep a journal for his lawyer?
Abbey
T:22, M:20 H:55 Me:45 H-OW PA: N/07 OW Jan08 Bomb:Feb/08 S: Apr/08 Back together Ap1/09-Sept/11 Oct, 2011, uncertain future/H is a mess. Dec/11 - Doin'friend mode. Some days are better than others.
