I don't know what to do......

[holdingon]

Im trying to stay patient but some days I have a very hard time with it all.

If you make this into a t-shirt, you might get rich.

Oh, Lee. I feel for you guy, I really do. You've been doing this for so long. What if you act as if your wife has an illness (she does) and really needs your help right now. What if you minister to HER needs, love her unconditionally (yes, without sex as a condition) until she is well. Show her how much you love her. Fill, fill, fill HER love tank, without regard for yours. Do this... then watch what happens.