I NEVER said my marriage was perfect. I said that I THOUGHT it was good and I THOUGHT she was happy.
Ive dated a few women and when I said they don't compare, I meant that they don't compare to the wife I used to know.
I also never said that I didn't do anything wrong. I know the mistakes I made. I just wish I had a chance to do if over again.
I am also still working on detachment. That is why I remain dark.
Tad
Currently: M 57 XW 58 Sons 39,34,32,30
The Sitch: Married 26 years EA w/ OM 9/10 Bomb 10/10 (5 weeks after 25th anniversary) Sep 12/10 She wants D 1/11 W files 5/11 D final 10/11 XW marries OM 6/13