Thank you for the responses.

I appreciate the 2x4s. Especially yours 25. smile

I'm a little confused though...

I NEVER said my marriage was perfect. I said that I THOUGHT it was good and I THOUGHT she was happy.

Ive dated a few women and when I said they don't compare, I meant that they don't compare to the wife I used to know.

I also never said that I didn't do anything wrong. I know the mistakes I made. I just wish I had a chance to do if over again.

I am also still working on detachment. That is why I remain dark.

Tad


Currently:
M 57 XW 58
Sons 39,34,32,30

The Sitch:
Married 26 years
EA w/ OM 9/10
Bomb 10/10 (5 weeks after 25th anniversary)
Sep 12/10
She wants D 1/11
W files 5/11
D final 10/11
XW marries OM 6/13