No I don't want to cut her off, but some people recommended that if she wants to be on her own, that I should cut her off so she can really have a taste of what it is like without me. I just find it so hard to do. We have had many arguments about me being too controlling with the money. I am still paying the her car payments (my loan, her car). Once in a while she was using debit card to by her lunch or cigarettes, so maybe that is why people said to cut her off, still I don't have it in my heart to do that to her. So is it a big deal? Is it a backslide?
M 33 W 29 S 4 M 5 T 7 11/7/11 Separation, W moves in with parents 12/1/11 W: "IDLY, I'm not coming back, it's over" 1/7/12 D Bomb Dropped
