Well I already had a backslide. I was working out on the stair climber (I use my iphone to listen to music) and W called. I answered (should have let it go to message). She did ask what I was doing (maybe a little bonus there for her knowing I was working out?) then she asked me if she could borrow money for gas. At first I told her I wasn't sure if I had the money (should have stuck with that) and she was like oh ok, but then I asked how much she needed. She said $15-20. I said I should be able to give you $15. Then she said her credit card wasn't working for some reason, so she had to use my debit card to pay for her doctor visit and her prescription (yes, I still never got those bank cards back). She told me she would repay that. I had another out, but still had to rescue her and tell her it was okay to use the debit card. I don't know why I can't tell the woman "no". She said thank you. I asked her if she got referral and she told me she is getting the run around again (the stupid doctor did this last time 3 or 4 years ago when she wanted to see a specialist). We talked a little more about that, and I told her that I would talk to her in the morning. At least I ended conversation.
M 33 W 29 S 4 M 5 T 7 11/7/11 Separation, W moves in with parents 12/1/11 W: "IDLY, I'm not coming back, it's over" 1/7/12 D Bomb Dropped
I was working out on the stair climber (I use my iphone to listen to music) and W called. I answered (should have let it go to message). She did ask what I was doing (maybe a little bonus there for her knowing I was working out?) then she asked me if she could borrow money for gas. At first I told her I wasn't sure if I had the money (should have stuck with that) and she was like oh ok, but then I asked how much she needed. She said $15-20. I said I should be able to give you $15. Then she said her credit card wasn't working for some reason, so she had to use my debit card to pay for her doctor visit and her prescription (yes, I still never got those bank cards back). She told me she would repay that. I had another out, but still had to rescue her and tell her it was okay to use the debit card. I don't know why I can't tell the woman "no". She said thank you. I asked her if she got referral and she told me she is getting the run around again (the stupid doctor did this last time 3 or 4 years ago when she wanted to see a specialist). We talked a little more about that, and I told her that I would talk to her in the morning. At least I ended conversation.