wife had affair and now a divorce as well

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Its been hard this week. My W sent me the separation agreement that I took to my A and he said don't sign it. Knowing that the holidays are literally right here is hard. I am jewish my W is not so this is the first year I will not be with her on Xmas Eve at my IL's with kids. I will be up at my condo Xmas morning and then at my IL's. After that I have gone dark. We only talk through email unless its important to call or when we see each other every now and then. I have kids during new years so that will be hard. Knowing she is partying with this expletive drunk. I am hoping that by not seeing me she will miss me in the new year and it will be a new start in more ways. I am keeping my hopes and dreams alive.
Good luck to all going through this. It is a club I never wanted to join but the people are nice.