I have learned through this crisis a very important thing. It does not matter what your Ml'er wants. You have to be yourself, your authentic self. Once they see this you, it reeks of confidence. That is what is important.


Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11