I have learned through this crisis a very important thing. It does not matter what your Ml'er wants. You have to be yourself, your authentic self. Once they see this you, it reeks of confidence. That is what is important.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11