Happy Anniversary and for all the holidays past and future.
It's good to hear you're still your spunky self and continuing on a healthy relationship with your new wife. Your ex remains consistent in her wacky ways. Good for you to maintain healthy boundaries and recognize her manipulations and not be controlled by them.
Moving on and time are the greatest healers. I know that getting my own place has been one of the best things that has happened to me. I'm making my own life and only slide when I have to deal with the ex. See.. I no longer say "former spouse" to minimize any sense of negativity! He's just someone I wouldn't want to know.
Big hugs. And if you like musical theatre, come see "Guys and Dolls" at Center Stage Theatre in Shelton. My daughter is in the ensemble. They always put on a great show!