Again thank you very much 25 for the help. Loads of great advice. Last night I went to her parents to pick up S. W asked me to do this because she was feeling really sick. She also asked me to bring her mail with me. When I got there she was curled up on the floor with a blanket. She seemed pretty cranky as she stated she couldn't get any sleep. She then complained about their dogs barking non stop. I hung out for a bit and talked to her and her parents. I gave her her mail (her new phone) and she seemed in a better mood once she started to talk to me. She is no longer on my phone account. She said she was feeling really sick and showed me inside her mouth how her tonsils were really swollen. I just listened to her, had a good conversation with her family, then took S home. This morning she showed up, said she had a rough night trying to sleep. She continued the conversation with me I just listened. She said about taking the TV from the bedroom with her today, I told her I didn't mind, it is hers anyway. She told me she was hoping at her doctors appointment she could get the referral she needed to see the specialist. She said seeing the specialist would really help her. I told her I had to get going to work, SHE said "have a nice day", and I told her "Hope you feel better". Crazy day at work wasn't sure what was going to be the verdict when I got home. I usually tell my friends how the "Sherwood Bandits" rob my house while I'm at work. When I got in the door, she was sitting on couch and we greeted each other. SHE ASKED ME "How was your day"! I was almost in shock, but calmly told her "Crazy!", and explained to her my day. She was actually asking me stuff about my work and day. I asked her about her day and she told me she was feeling a little better. She said it felt nice to actually spend some time with S and not have her parents or sisters around. She said she couldn't wait to have her own place "up and running" (bummer!) Then she had to go to her doctor appointment. I thought this was another great conversation and it felt great to tell her about me. She told me she took the TV and some more of her hygiene items because its that time of month. She said she would see me tomorrow morning. I know I can't let this go to my head, because maybe tomorrow she will realize that she asked me about my day, and be a little more protective or even cold. I will continue to go with the flow and not jump the gun here on anything. I noticed she still has long term plans of living on her own and I will respect that. My goal right now is to become her "boyfriend".


M 33
W 29
S 4
M 5
T 7
11/7/11 Separation, W moves in with parents
12/1/11 W: "IDLY, I'm not coming back, it's over"
1/7/12 D Bomb Dropped