Incidentally I've met quite a few women over the years who had a "cheat on him before he does it to you" mantra...and although it seems there are more women on this board who've been cheated on than men, in my immediate life I hear about more women doing it to men than the other way around. I wonder if the board has it skewed in the opposite direction just because men might be less likely to join a sort of "support group" than women, but that in reality, women are the cheaters more frequently??
M45 Bomb 6/09; EA 6/10; Divorced 1/11 Proud single mom of 7 little feline girls and one little feline boy "Fall down 53 times. Get up 54." -- Zen saying
