Beatrice, it wasn't till I typed out my post above and proofread it that I suddenly thought hang on, is she in MLC? I met her at a small dinner party thrown by a married friend who brought all her friends together who had been divorced or who were going through one at the time or separated...now that I think of it the other 3 women I met, well, one was divorced and currently with a guy half her age, and the other two (also my age) were either just moved out on the stbxh or in process of moving on the grounds that their rel. were "friendships" and they had nothing but the kids in common and the women wanted out. I was the only "betrayed" spouse there who was still in love with my XH.
I think my married friend figured she was being supportive in having us all there but honestly I was the oddball as I wasn't "dissing" my XH and didn't want out of the marriage at the time. I wonder if all 3 of them were not MLC...and each one of them had 3 kids a piece. Now I'm kinda glad I never got close to any of them ;-)
M45 Bomb 6/09; EA 6/10; Divorced 1/11 Proud single mom of 7 little feline girls and one little feline boy "Fall down 53 times. Get up 54." -- Zen saying
