My H text messaged my d yesterday, only thing is is I had her phone, so she didnt respond until later that night... he of coarse made a second attempt to contact her when she didnt respond... so now he is super dad??? with a week of no contact?
when I saw her after school I told her he had texted and she responded with a simple "ok, love you too.." and to the text from him that asked if she were ok and how she was doing she responded "yeah"/.. she is 8 yrs old and barely understands normal communication, why would he think it appropriate to text?
anyhow, he calls me this morning and says does D know he is picking her up after school? I said I didnt think so and he referred to his text to her... I have asked him to communicate visits with me, not her... again she is the child... this time i just didnt waist my breath, the text he sent to d didnt have any plans just a statement of "maybe"
when we spoke this morning I just didnt have it in me to fight anymore.. so I simply said it was fine...but I am wanting to spit nails.. he said he has just been so busy with work and all... whatever!!! we are all busy... take the frickin 2 minutes and call me... its your d after all! but instead I just went quiet said it would be fine and now I am on here writing a small book about how mad I am... I am so tired of tip toeing around to save his feeling or being afraid I will push him to just file for the d..
m 41 h 44 d 17 (prev marriage) d 9 Never give up!!!!!
