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Again, called today all day after I avoided him for 2 days and still asking to get back together promises to do whatever it takes.


Ummm...fine, but "whatever it takes" means getting OW out of the apartment ASAP, taking responsibility for his actions, accepting that he has to START OVER AT SQUARE ONE with dating you, and that that probably means living in separate apartments for at least six months while he proves the sincerity of his intentions.