New Here; Husband left

[Accuray]

That's terrible. I don't know if this helps or not but every time I read about what your H says to you I get angry. It's so hard to understand what's driving his bizarre behavior.

The only thing I can think of is that he knows what he's doing is so wrong, and living with that knowledge makes him feel badly about himself, and the only way he can deal with that is to get beligerent and try to make your life miserable to try to make himself feel a little better. It's terribly cowardly and he will need to break himself out of that pattern or he'll eventually have a nervous breakdown.

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