Well, Bookkeeper and I have been talking relationship. She asked me today "what did you learn from your last marriage?" I replied "I learned that couples have to put the relationship first. They need to find time for each other. They need to talk to each other. They need to say “I love you” every day! In the busy lives we all lead, and especially when children are young, it’s too easy to let all the above slide and take each other for granted. I learned never to take love for granted. Now what is your answer?" She wrote "Communication is very important to having a long and lasting relationship. We are not mind readers. Don't take each other for granted and to be assertive and yet loving. Self-respect is very important." OMG, a woman that says "we can't be mind readers" I think I'm in love lol. We also discussed what we each do when we have a bad day and what we each have to give to a relationship (both her questions). So in my last email I suggested we meet and see where it goes. We'll see what she says, if it's a no go then there better be a game plan or I'm pulling the plug! We've done the question and answer session for seven days now, it's time for her to put her money where her keyboard is! lol.
