Do I stay or do I go?

[anyhope]

H came over tonight, he bought the christmas ornaments. He said ow might not be there for Christmas. He said he told her to go and shes not taking it well. I also ended up going to my friends house where I said I wouldn't go, he came to and bought me a flower.. Not like him at all.
Again, called today all day after I avoided him for 2 days and still asking to get back together promises to do whatever it takes.
I still need more time and told him yet again, but he seems to have issues understanding that I'm not running back to him just because he realised he made a mistake.. It was a very long mistake still in effect, so it is what it is for now.. No major changes..