Thanks everyone for your support, encouragement and kind words. Yesterday and today have been very tough and have made me feel like I have made ABSOLUTELY NO progress in my attempts to DB and/or save my marriage and family. ---
My L has drafted a retort that adds a bit more perspective and I am thankful for that. I am trying to calm myself back down and get back to a better place. --- I guess I am too wound up to offer a clean opinion right now. Is it worth it to keep DB'ing or am I just plain screwed right now?
how can Dbing not be worth it?
This marriage is not over by a long shot. 1/3 of divorces filed in this state don't ever get completed.
And btw, how does DBing hurt you or your cause? Why would you stop it? To give up? How does that help you at all?
You still protect yourself financially and legally, but you also DB your ass off.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
