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Re: Too little, Too late. brenalim #2205811 12/16/11 12:35 AM
Joined: Sep 2011 Posts: 1,987 B BklynMom Member
BklynMom Member B Joined: Sep 2011 Posts: 1,987	Its seems like you are off to a good start in detaching. I think its harder to create distance when you are living together but the benefit to your kids is tremendous. Also your H would move out if he really wanted to no matter the financial constraints - write down in your book of results that he has not moved out. That is a big positive. Keep up the looking good. Keep the house together. I would add how about going out at night when he gets home at 8. Maybe to the gym, book club, sports league, whatever.. let it be a little mysterious but dress cutely when you leave. You have an opportunitity to show him your changes everyday. Be careful around the holidays. It will be tempting to include him in all family events that he may not want to participate in. Dont but any pressure on him to participate in any extended family events. We are here for you. I see a lot of hope:) ---- M 39 H 35 D5,D4 M 4 T 9 ILYBNILWY 5/18/11 Left 7/11/11 Divorced 12/1/13

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Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/13/11 01:41 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	brenalim	12/14/11 02:12 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/14/11 03:00 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/14/11 03:26 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	Some Day	12/14/11 04:40 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/14/11 05:24 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	brenalim	12/14/11 08:13 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/15/11 01:34 AM
Re: Too little, Too late.	BklynMom	12/16/11 12:35 AM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/16/11 04:04 AM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/16/11 03:33 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/17/11 04:51 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	sunshine76	12/18/11 12:11 AM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/18/11 12:54 AM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/18/11 04:38 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	labug	12/18/11 05:33 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	BklynMom	12/18/11 06:05 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	Harrier	12/18/11 07:32 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/19/11 02:06 AM
Re: Too little, Too late.	kolja	12/19/11 03:10 AM
Re: Too little, Too late.	sunshine76	12/19/11 02:45 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	Harrier	12/19/11 02:59 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/20/11 04:06 AM
Re: Too little, Too late.	sunshine76	12/20/11 05:39 AM
Re: Too little, Too late.	PERSEVERANCE	12/20/11 06:31 AM
Re: Too little, Too late.	seeking answers	12/20/11 10:05 AM
Re: Too little, Too late.	brenalim	12/20/11 02:15 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/20/11 02:28 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	PERSEVERANCE	12/20/11 03:07 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	DestinyUnknown	12/20/11 04:08 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	adinva	12/20/11 04:26 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/20/11 04:38 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	adinva	12/20/11 06:06 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	brenalim	12/20/11 07:08 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/20/11 11:02 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	Some Day	12/20/11 11:11 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	DestinyUnknown	12/20/11 11:20 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	sunshine76	12/20/11 11:44 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/21/11 03:01 AM
Re: Too little, Too late.	labug	12/21/11 03:51 AM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/21/11 04:03 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	adinva	12/21/11 04:10 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	Rick1963	12/21/11 04:32 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	kolja	12/21/11 04:46 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/21/11 07:11 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	Rick1963	12/21/11 07:28 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/22/11 02:48 AM
Re: Too little, Too late.	any chance?	12/21/11 07:37 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	workinghardguy	12/21/11 07:48 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/22/11 02:57 AM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/22/11 03:07 AM
Re: Too little, Too late.	sunshine76	12/21/11 08:04 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	DestinyUnknown	12/21/11 10:32 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/22/11 03:13 AM
Re: Too little, Too late.	Rick1963	12/22/11 03:31 AM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/22/11 03:47 AM
Re: Too little, Too late.	DestinyUnknown	12/22/11 07:39 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/22/11 08:10 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/23/11 04:47 AM
Re: Too little, Too late.	labug	12/23/11 02:23 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	brenalim	12/23/11 02:33 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	sunshine76	12/23/11 05:31 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/23/11 10:25 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	labug	12/24/11 12:54 AM
Re: Too little, Too late.	Rick1963	12/24/11 01:28 AM
Re: Too little, Too late.	labug	12/24/11 04:42 AM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/24/11 04:44 AM
Re: Too little, Too late.	sunshine76	12/24/11 05:55 AM
Re: Too little, Too late.	DestinyUnknown	12/24/11 04:26 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/25/11 05:15 AM
Re: Too little, Too late.	sunshine76	12/25/11 06:21 AM
Re: Too little, Too late.	labug	12/25/11 01:05 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/26/11 09:06 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	2thepoint	12/27/11 12:39 AM
Re: Too little, Too late.	labug	12/27/11 01:57 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/28/11 05:56 AM
Re: Too little, Too late.	sunshine76	12/28/11 02:10 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	nhmom	12/28/11 06:20 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	DestinyUnknown	12/28/11 08:56 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	labug	12/28/11 11:35 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/29/11 04:02 AM
Re: Too little, Too late.	nhmom	12/29/11 05:50 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	BFloat	12/29/11 09:16 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	Jenna333	12/30/11 01:42 AM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/30/11 03:27 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	Jenna333	12/30/11 03:59 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	labug	12/30/11 04:02 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/31/11 05:49 AM
Re: Too little, Too late.	sunshine76	12/31/11 10:59 AM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/31/11 02:53 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	nhmom	12/31/11 03:32 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	sunshine76	12/31/11 04:47 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	BFloat	12/31/11 04:56 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	dbmod	12/31/11 10:35 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	Jenna333	12/31/11 02:54 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	Rick1963	12/31/11 02:59 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/22/11 02:43 AM
Re: Too little, Too late.	ericmsant2	12/20/11 09:27 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/20/11 10:31 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	sunshine76	12/26/11 09:55 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	BklynMom	12/26/11 10:22 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	labug	12/26/11 11:10 PM

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