Hey guys. Yes its pretty much just that. H sees S once a week for about 3 hours. Thats all. He frequently throws it in my face that he "gave" me sole custody ( physical + legal). I cant believe how fast he has changed. He is allways angry w/ me. We had made a plan for xmas that we made weeks ago and both agreed upon. He was going to come here on xmas and we would do our S's xmas together and then he was going to go to his moms b4 he had to go to work at 12, and i was going to go to my moms. So he texts me and says after we do xmas together he wants to take S to his moms for 2 hours and then i can come get him. I said no that that wasnt what we had disscused and he flew off the handle like usual. He was saying that he only gets to c his son for a few hours week and i have him all the time. Which is true but thats by his choice. I have NEVER denied him seeing his son or anything like that. He was the one who checked out. H also said that he is making this easy on me and that he could take S half the time away from me if that was what i wanted. I stayed pretty calm and said was that what he wanted? I cant believe he was playing the victim. I'm sooo tired of him trying to get what he wants by threatening me with our son. wtf!!!! I gave in and said that he could take him but that i wanted to talk about it. I said that i saw his point but that a few extra hours wasnt a big deal but that it wasnt fair to make me change my plans eirther. He said that he couldnt see my point of view, that he never sees my point of view, which is why this happened, and i make him angry w/ everything i say and do. wtf?!! I texted him that i didnt understand why we cant talk about our s and what was the problem. he said he didnt "feel like it". i replied that when he feels like it to call me.ARGGGGG
