I bought the book you are always pushing "Co-dependent No More". So far its great and I can really relate to many of the scenarios. Thanks for recommending it.

I always thought co-dependent meant opposite of independent and since I was always self sufficient I couldnt possibly be co-dependent.

Its so nice to make new friends as you are doing through church. I feel like when I am in a relationship especially a co-dependent one there is never time for new friends.

You sound like you are doing great right now, keep enjoying yourself - you deserve to be happy.


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M 39
H 35
D5,D4
M 4
T 9
ILYBNILWY 5/18/11
Left 7/11/11
Divorced 12/1/13