Never thought I'd be here......part 2

[antlers]

All I can tell ya' right now is I understand the hurt that you're feeling, I'm sorry for you, I've been there, and I genuinely want things to get better for you...regardless of whether or not your marriage survives. Do the things that you're being told here. We know you don't want it, and so does she. She's not thinking about you. YOU have to think about you Crimson. All you can do right now is take care of you and your assets the best you can. You've been told what to do regarding taking care of you...that has not changed. You still need to do that no matter what. But realize that this thing is moving forward as of right now and there are certain steps you have to take and certain things you have to go through if it continues. You can control you, your actions, and your reactions...nothing else. Control what you can.