"This time, I looked, and was... "Eh" and went back to my party. I don't really have a good answer for her question.. but more importantly I didn't really feel like talking to her. Not in a sad or depressing way... but because I was GALing and enjoying life with my church family."
Val that^^^^^is growth I heard that a WAS sometimes wakes up when the LBS has really detached and trully believes that they can live a good life without them. But the most important thing about your weird feeling is that maybe you are starting to really like yourself and no longer fear the future or being without her. I think your feelings of self worth are back. Good place to be. ((()))
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”
I heard that a WAS sometimes wakes up when the LBS has really detached and trully believes that they can live a good life without them. But the most important thing about your weird feeling is that maybe you are starting to really like yourself and no longer fear the future or being without her. I think your feelings of self worth are back. Good place to be. ((()))