Hey Harrier, you got really good advice from 25! Loved reading through it too.

Last weekend, at Retrouvaille, the presentors said to remember that our old M is dead. That really got to my H! He felt like it gave him so much hope that our new M will do well.

What does that mean? That one of the things that makes him think our M will not make it is the fact that we could get caught in all the wrong things we did in the past, and thus sabotage whatever progress we are making.

Just backing up 25 on what she said about IC's and MC's making it worse when they bring up the past.....

Me:49 H:45 D:12 M:14 T:18
Bomb: 6/26/10
EA: 9/3/10, fizzled out slowly, now ???
11/5/11 Retrouvaille
Finally piecing....
Its peaceful at last, but we got a looong way to go