well im feeling a little down today, didnt sleep well last night.. I have alot of anxiety as to the big move my h will be making in the next couple weeks..

My d (8yr old) seems to think her dad will just forget about her and she is afraid she is going to miss him alot! Of course she is, and as her mother I want to make her feel better... I need to know what to do here, the angry side of me says let him make the effort with her, but that only hurts her if he doesnt... the mom side is telling me, make her know that she will see her dad even if I have to drive her there once a week.

What is the right thing to do here? I want to do right by her.. my h can hang himself in every catagory except my girls... does that make sense?


m 41
h 44
d 17 (prev marriage)
d 9
Never give up!!!!!