KML, again: the lynch pins are that the WAS is willing and able to do the work. AND the fact that we as the betrayed spouses... we KNOW what they are capable of as far as lies, deception, sneakiness, etc etc etc. It all factors into if we actually make it through a reconciliation at all.

Abs

T:22, M:20
H:55 Me:45
H-OW PA: N/07
OW Jan08
Bomb:Feb/08
S: Apr/08
Back together Ap1/09-Sept/11
Oct, 2011, uncertain future/H is a mess.
Dec/11 - Doin'friend mode. Some days are better than others.