Never thought I'd be here......part 2

[antlers]

I think you handled it just fine. Your concerns are certainly legitimate. There is NOTHING you can do to stop this...understand that. If she's prepared to go forward with this...it's gonna happen. So don't bother trying...don't put ANY effort into trying to stop it. Feeling like you do is fine and understandable, but reality is hitting you in the gut...so you've gotta put your guard up. What I mean by that is...take care of YOU first and foremost in EVERY way from this point on...no matter what. She knows how you feel...believe me, so don't bother telling her.