Have no expectation that she will do the right thing by you. away and I know how to proceed.
Be prepared that she will not do the right thing by you. Understand that 'what's right' to you and 'what's right' to her are 2 different things in these situations. It [censored]...but that's the way it is.
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.