"Out of sight, out of mind" seems to fit H to a tee.
That certainly is the feeling I have about my H. "If I just sit over here out of the fray of family like and act like everything is OK, it will be."
And he did that for the last couple of years we were together. He felt I was overreacting much of the time. And I probably was, but it was in response to his non-reaction. I now know that I can't blame my actions on him but it sure makes it difficult to be in a relationship, which should be based on relating, with a person who is only there in body.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
