Never thought I'd be here......part 2

[labug]

And you could look at this way, no doubt the L had her searching for anything they could tag you with and that's the only thing she could come up with? I think that speaks volumes. But it gives you fair warning that you must protect yourself and keep records. Have no expectation that she will do the right thing by you.

Anger isn't bad. Anger can be motivational but it can be dangerous when stuffed or reacted to in unhealthy ways (yelling, slamming doors, hitting, drinking). I try to look at where my anger is coming from. Mine is usually rooted in fear and when I deal with the fear, the anger goes away and I know how to proceed.