I couldn't agree more with 25! Problem drinking affects the whole family. I regret that I didn't find Al Anon when my H was drinking because it helps to understand so much of what I was thinking and feeling and my reactions to H even after the drinking was no longer a problem. But I did finally find it and it helped me become a better person.

In large-medium size cities I know there are AA meetings almost all day, everyday. Go online and find one.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss