Respect. One of the things that takes a huge hit in this sitch. The word that keeps creeping into my mind is "weak". I would have never thought that of my H. But now it's quite there.

Does that respect come back? I think only once they start showing themselves coming back to their regular brains. I think that shoving them out of the nest (which is what clearly is what needs to be done in your sitch too.)...forces them to gain respect for us, and themselves.

Abbey


T:22, M:20
H:55 Me:45
H-OW PA: N/07
OW Jan08
Bomb:Feb/08
S: Apr/08
Back together Ap1/09-Sept/11
Oct, 2011, uncertain future/H is a mess.
Dec/11 - Doin'friend mode. Some days are better than others.