Agree, if your wife will go to counseling, I'd say start.

Good luck!

My H is locked in a PA/EA and has vaguely said he might call our MC to talk...but hasn't. In his case, I believe he needs to make a decision to try and I don't want to force it on him.

M 44, H 46
D11, D9, D5
Married 12 years
PA confirmed 9/2011
I filed 3/2012
H moved out 7/2012