JB I am going through this^^^^^^. The need to beg and for her to reconsider is lessening. I guess that is normal. So keep moving forward as you are. They will join us if they want if not we will be ok.
Yes, I think I've been here for awhile. I was just thinking about it today, though. I did cut the external pursuing very early in my situation. However, the internal pursuing persisted. She never saw it, but it was there. As of late however, the internal pursuing seems to be going away. That is, if any of that makes sense.
