Hi vc. Don't know how I missed this post, but I did have a pretty decent weekend. R wise, I couldn't ask for anything more. H got me an early Christmas present - a new smartphone on a joint phone line. Meaning that he got rid of his old phone and old number. I know, I know, we still have a lot of work to do, but at least there's no lock on this phone and he's offered it to me several times.

I'm still working hard just to make sure that we have a good nest egg. H has been working at different locations, but I don't know how long he will be able to go before the furlough definitively comes. I think we've both been handling it pretty well.

My real source of stress is coming from my mom - who is temporarily living with us. She just showed up last week, and I have had a permanent migraine since. H doesn't have a problem with it, actually encouraged it to be honest. He has a lot of respect and admiration from her (maybe because his own mom is, yeah, let's leave that one alone). I, on the other hand, am going stir crazy. Its only supposed to last until January, but I am definitely resentful.

On one hand, I am totally angry at her. She knows better than anyone how precarious our R is right now. I do know that there are other places that she can stay, but I guess it means something that she feels most comfortable here. I just wish should would have given me some advanced notice. I had a few words with her today, so hopefully things will get better after this.