Thanks, Antlers. I have worked so hard and sacrificed to build a decent financial platform for my family - the three of us. It was done out of love, done out of a desire to give my family a good life. And now it seems as though it is about to come crashing down. Everything that I tried to do - despite some of the shortcomings that I had - is blowing up in my face. And it seems like W is throwing the grenades. Or her lawyer - hell, I don't know how to tell the difference anymore.
I realized after I got that letter today that I am having a difficult time finding love, patience and compassion while in the midst of what clearly is an adversarial relationship that I don't want.
HOW DO YOU DB WITH A LAWYER COMING AFTER YOU?!?!? How do you remain civil when the L says "I understand 'Crimson' is not helping with expenses for S" when that is a blatant lie?
Again - I am going to need a lot of help here. How to handle W?? How to maintain DB principles in this? It is DAMN hard to swallow emotions on this. And her going to this length clearly indicates that she has no particular desire to ask if this is even the right course to take or reconsider. Help.....just, help!
