I've been there Crimson, and it hurts like hell for someone you love to go after you legally and financially the way they do. But they do. It's a hard reality. My advice is to work like hell to make Crimson a stronger and better man, no matter what...especially regardless of the bad [censored] that's possible from here on out. And I wouldn't say a damn thing to her regarding the legal proceedings...not now and not later, no matter how bad it might get. Remember you are never going to talk your way out of something you have acted your way into. Nothing you SAY right now will matter too much to her. When you see her, try to NOT think about what she is doing TO you.
Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.
