Hey guys, things have been pretty quiet. After I told H I signed the "papers" he has stopped texting me pretty much at all. Things have calmed down a ton. He still see's our son once a week but it's only for 2-3 hours. He had him today and when he was done raced out the door b/c he was late meeting "someone" at the gym. Yeah. I haven't contacted him except about our son. He was sick at the sitter the other day and I called him to ask if he could stay home w/ him the next day and he said he would get back to me later He was off that day. He later said no b/c it wasn't his responsibility, wtf, and thats why I have sole custody, and he pays child support. wow i really couldnt believe it. H seems so far away. I really wonder where he has gone to. Not physically but emotionally. I miss him so much. I wonder if he will ever want to get back together and be a family. He did ask me several times via text why I wasnt changing my last name back. When I responded I said that i wanted the same last name as my son. He said ok, that he was just wondering. One of his biggest complaints when we were together was that I didnt finish school. He throws it back in my face all the time. When I told him I was going back and not taking loans out he said how? When I said that my work was paying for it, he got pissy w/ me. Lie he couldnt be happy for me. Do you guys thing that I should try to iniate some kind of dialog between us or stay dark for a while?I'm not sure b/c he's not contacting me at this point and i dont want to pursue but he has allways responded well to complements and things
