I'm looking for feedback from my good friends here.
Someone said that it makes sense to wait 24 hours before you act on something that might be an anti-DB move. With that in mind I am thinking something through, and asking for input
Here's the question. I have been giving a lot of thought to my contributuion to the current M sitch, and what I can do in my life to be a better person/partner/friend/H.
I thought about apologizing in writing to my W for my contribution to our problems and outlining what I have learned from it and how I will do things differently going forward. I'm not sure she would know how I feel evolved otherwise.
I'm not sure. Part of me says it's honest open communication and can only help set the record straight.
The other part of me says that since she is a WAW at the moment, doing this would only outline for her again what she might be unhappy about, and that only actions will show her these changes as opposed to my communication. Also, I imaging that she needs to only hear her voice at the moment, not mine (I can picture 25yrs answering this way)telling me this.
Thoughts? _____________________________________________________________ me - 53, her - 45, married 24 yrs sons = 24,21,13 bombing commenced - March 2011 live together, separate rooms
