WHG, You have offered me great advice in recent times and I hope I can do the same here...
First off I believe your response was spot on... its your son too and ultimately you need to co-parent regardless of your current situation.. so good job..
I have a h who outside of one day a week does not ask or make any contact regarding d, either to me or her, and has not spoken to sd since october..so when ever parents seem to still put the children first i cheer them..its the right thing to do!
You said that your kids dont know, but probably sense it.. or something close.. I thought this too in the begining so I initiated a meeting with d's teacher and asked if she had any problems in class or has said anything? the teacher knew everything however said that d was doing really well... there actually is a little support group the school has and the kids can talk to each other and a c if they want..
Overall I commend you for all you do, we are all here trying to just get through this and we all have good days and bad.. just breathing at times is difficult!
m 41 h 44 d 17 (prev marriage) d 9 Never give up!!!!!
