WAW told me she idoesn't want to be married.

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I am looking over the Another Marriage Saved section per Rick.
I have to say it is uplifting but there are still questions and concerns I have. For example it seems that a good bit of the ones I am reading the couples didn't separate. They lived with each other everyday. My case I am out of my house so she doesn't see the changes and with the OM in the picture how can she miss me?
Now I did read that the OM is a band aid right now for her to go to when she is depressed. Believe me there is no future with this guy.
I have a question regarding 180 now when I am with my W and kids I do the customary/gentlemanly thing of I get the food or drinks etc. This weekend with the race we are doing and the train ride do I still do this or would this be the 180 and don't. To me its just being polite. I can just get the kids something and let her get her own? Not sure I would be able to do that. Not the way I was brought up.