Indecision and the affair continues (Part 2)

[Abbey]

NB, I think you and I are at that cross roads where we WANT to be done... but deep down we know there's still a flame in there somewhere. So do the aliens.

I suspect too, that once we kick them out of the bed/nest/comfy and soft place to fall... they'll start to drown. It's then the brain really begins to kick out.

My advice... do NOT tell him what he's done to you yet. He's still not ready for it. Save it for when he's remorseful. And I suspect he will be. So don't backslide, use it when it's got the most oomph.

Let him chase,... don't become completely aloof but let him chase too. It does something to the male brain to chase. Don't understand it, just have experienced it enough times for me to just believe in it

I don't know what to offer about telling the kids, *hugs*
Abs