I think I did the right thing by my muted reaction to his request and not asking any questions. I agree, I need to have no expectations. I have been on many ups and downs on this rollercoaster and see no reason why that pattern won't continue for a long time to come. My detachment and GALing is coming along. My detaching is definitely coming in handy in riding the ups and downs. I feel I'm on a more even keel and react less to his distacing or touch and gos.
Homework is going well. Currently reading through Pursuit and Distance. I'm also reading The Solo Partner and have some additonal books I ordered (Co-Dependent No More, etc.)waiting for me.
M:12yr 06/11:IDLYA 07/11:Moves out 08/11:PA disc(began in May) 09/11:Moves w OW 10/11:Breaks up w OW;gets apt 11&12/11: Touchngo w me 1/12: Comes home-PA resumes 2/12: PA disc; PA ends Today: Piecing
