You must let her initiate any R talk any talk unless it is about the kids and urgent. If you talk about the R or M she will feel you are persuing so don't do it. Let her start and if she does all you should do is listen and validate.
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”
