WAW told me she idoesn't want to be married.

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Rick took your advice and I am looking over old posts.
This was posted by Juststunned way back when I first joined.
"If you have not been emotionally available to her in the past and have now decided to change that (180) she will likely need to see that change consistently over a long period of time. It will need to be a real change, not something tried to Band-Aid the R. It is likely she will perceive it as a Band-Aid (tactic) at first even if it is real. That is why you need to be consistent and patient while waiting for even the smallest positive."

So my question is since we didn't talk or have conversations and such. Now when I see her should I try this or leave it be for now. Considering she doesn't want to talk about personal things other then kids, finances and holidays.