witz my W has not called me emailed or TM since this started. You are in a better place. Take that as a positive. Read the 37 rules IS posted for you and follow them. You need to detach and stop persuing or you will push her further away. I know how you feel about the separation papers and lawyers. I recently screwed up also while filling legal documents. You MUST not show any weakness or fear she will sense them. Cooperate with the paper work, I know it makes no sense but you have no control. Hang in there


M 53
D 20
Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24
Together 26 yrs
Married 16
W Filed for D 7/21/11
Served 9/6/11
D final 8/28/12

“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”

John Wooden