Gosh Abbs! What on earth does this ow have??!! Honestly, what do you think it is? Two men with rings in their noses?
We've written and read all about her personality disorders, but those things tend to wear people out.
Children, combined with men who care about those children = RINGs in their noses. Thus why my above expansion about what my H has to feel towards her is as imperative as actually going full blast with a lawyer. It's not enough to feel you have no choice. He has to be so motivated to use legal means, that he doesn't care if he puts her in a mental hospital. It has to be war. Otherwise, he'll get sucked in, again and again.
The only other things that could happen as I said before, she gets him arrested by some false allegation (entirely possible) if/when he stops trying to dance to her tune. OR he sees his daughter abused by her, or her other kids.
As for personality disorders,... I know. It's f'g exhausting. She is a full blown psycho wackjob. FULL BLOWN. The problem with that is that my H has "broken bird" disease where she's concerned, he is attracted to feeling needed and useful. He feels he can "fix her" on some stupid level.
Abbey
T:22, M:20 H:55 Me:45 H-OW PA: N/07 OW Jan08 Bomb:Feb/08 S: Apr/08 Back together Ap1/09-Sept/11 Oct, 2011, uncertain future/H is a mess. Dec/11 - Doin'friend mode. Some days are better than others.
