My typical disclaimer: I am in no position to really advise anyone given my situation. But I will take a stab here.
Trust, as I see it, is something that you either have or don't have for/with someone and by all measurable standards it can come and go in the course of a relationship. Not to sound overtly negative, but for right now I think it is perfectly reasonable to NOT trust 100% given your situation and let it be rebuilt over time. Central to this process is your ability to forgive and move past any wrong-doings by W. If you can't forgive, you can't trust. If you can't trust you can't have a stable relationship. The two are quite connected.
That said - be happy, man. Your W has said "sorry" and appears to be taking baby steps back to the R. There are countless posters and lurkers here that envy the sh*t out of you. Myself included! Take it as a gift and cautiously run with it.
Take it as a gift and cautiously run with it.
